Saturday, August 5, 2017

Great Expectaions :SOARING LIKE EAGLES IN THE UPDRAFTS!

 Morning walks are how I start each of my days. It gets me moving and motivated! I’ve been a teacher at heart for such a long time. So, when I walk I find myself thinking of experiences with students, being grateful for mentors, and thinking about the teacher I aspire to become.  As the start of the school  year gets closer I’m reflecting on setting expectations and learning how to lead.

On any journey there are moments when we get deeply discouraged and eagerly encouraged to follow our hearts. This is especially true as I consider my winding road to teaching.  This week was an encouraging week because I visited a school and one of my greatest mentors published the second edition of his book. He has graciously included me in his story of becoming an educator.  He writes, that as a middle school student, I “raised the bar and took control of my goals.”  It’s an honor to be remembered in this way.  Nonetheless, his leadership and high expectations are a major reason for my success.  As principal he challenged us to write goals.  The challenge wasn’t an empty expectation that he had created for a class presentation instead; it was his daily practice that he had given to us as middle school students.   He hadn’t memorized his goals, but pulled them from his suit pocket to read them aloud to us as a class. The authenticity of the moment is what made it so life changing. 
In that moment the man who led our school was not leading with the knowledge of the Doctoral Degree that preceded his name but from his heart!  Leading from the heart is the best way to lead but it is ultimately the most challenging.
 There are two reasons for this: First, it means that you are prepared as leader to share personal experiences that have shaped you with others.   This is an art and takes courage. In order for this to be effective you must know who you are.  Second, this is not a leadership approach that all communities embrace.  Thankfully, this principal set the tone for leading with your head and your heart in our school building.

As I reflect on my leadership approach during student teaching I realize that I wasn’t leading the way I wanted to lead.  I had high expectations for my students and myself.  Yet, I struggled to effectively convey those expectations to students.    Here’s why I struggled with this.   My students were did not learn the basics of leadership from my middle school principal the way I did. So, if I wanted them to act like young leaders I had to give them the basic outline for leading and learning from the heart but I never did!

In that first week of school I wished I had introduced myself with this prompt:

SOARING LIKE EAGLES IN THE UPDRAFTS!  It means life is hard. We recognize that and then keep going! It comes from Dr. R & Dr. Biddle. What it means to me is less important than who it comes from!  So, I’ve also allowed students to know that these teachers INSPIRE me!

1.     List three people in your life that inspire you I hope to INSPIRE kids as there teacher, that’s a big HOPE but when they list the people that do Explain to them that they should always work like that person could walk into the room at any given moment!
2.      How are you today?  History is an EPIC STORY of emotions so, in order to teach it effectively I care about how you are…. before we evaluate others feeling let’s understand how we feel and help one others feel better!   We are not always going to feel good but we should make an effort to feel better!
3.     What is your favorite thing to do?   I am your teacher, I want you to be a successful student but we need to recognize your ABLITY to be AWESOME at other things too.
4.     Do you like History/ Social Studies? Why or Why not? (It’s totally alright to say no.) BE HONEST!  Most kids don’t like it.  They think it’s boning and stupid.    We’ll get through it together. It’s easier to do things that we don’t like if we know that someone’s always cheer us on!